--- title: Behavioral Health Strategies for Success description: Young adults facing mental health challenges can thrive with the right strategies. Cornerstones of Maine shares tips for young adults looking to take the step from potential to progress. image: https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/hubfs/25-CRN-0386-USED12.jpg --- [Go Back Up](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/blog/young-adults-transitioning-to-independence#top) [Skip to Content](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/blog/young-adults-transitioning-to-independence#body) [![CRN Logo5](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/hs-fs/hubfs/CRN%20Logo5.png?width=300&height=67&name=CRN%20Logo5.png "CRN Logo5")](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/) Toggle Menu - [Young Adult Programs](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-residential-transitional-living-programs) Toggle children for Young Adult Programs Main Menu (Press to Return) \> Young Adult Programs - [Residential Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adults-residential-treatment) - [Transitional Living](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adults-transitional-living) Toggle children for Transitional Living Young Adult Programs (Press to Return) \> Transitional Living - [Neurodivergent-Affirming](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/neurodivergent-living-asd-autism) - [Independent Living](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-independent-living) - [Aftercare](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-aftercare) - [Young Adult Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-residential-transitional-living-programs) Toggle children for Young Adult Treatment Main Menu (Press to Return) \> Young Adult Treatment - [Psychotherapy](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/psychotherapy-young-adults) - [Psychiatry](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/psychiatric-medication-management) - [Executive Function Coaching](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/executive-function-coaching) - [Relationship Coaching](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/relationship-coaching) - [Art & Music Therapy](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/art-music-expressive-therapy-young-adults) - [About Cornerstones](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/about-young-adult-treatment-living) Toggle children for About Cornerstones Main Menu (Press to Return) \> About Cornerstones - [About Our Clients](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/our-clients) Toggle children for About Our Clients About Cornerstones (Press to Return) \> About Our Clients - [Anxiety Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/anxiety-treatment-young-adults) - [Depression Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/depression-treatment-young-adults) - [ADHD Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/adhd-treatment-young-adults) - [OCD Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/ocd-treatment-young-adults) - [ASD Treatment](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/asd-young-adult-living) - [Young Adult Treatment Homes](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-homes) - [Young Adult Treatment Team](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-team) - [Young Adult Treatment Careers](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-careers) - [Admissions](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-residential-transitional-living) Toggle children for Admissions Main Menu (Press to Return) \> Admissions - [Admission Inquiry Form](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-admissions-inquiry) - [FAQs](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/treatment-transitional-living-faq) - [Verify Your Insurance](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-insurance) - [Resources](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-resources) Toggle children for Resources Main Menu (Press to Return) \> Resources - [For Parents](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/parents-with-young-adults-struggling) - [For Young Adults](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/transitional-living-young-adults) Toggle children for For Young Adults Resources (Press to Return) \> For Young Adults - [Life at Cornerstones](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-life) - [Blogs](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/blog) - [Presentations](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-presentations) - [In The Media](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-media) - [Contact Us](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/contact-young-adult-treatment#contact-form) [back to blog](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/blog) # Navigating the Transition to Independence: Strategies for Young Adults Facing Mental Health Challenges [young adults mental health](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/blog/topic/young-adults-mental-health) • Written by: Cornerstones of Maine ![](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/hubfs/25-CRN-0386-USED12.jpg) Share article [mailto:?subject=Behavioral%20Health%20Strategies%20for%20Success&body=https%3A%2F%2Fcornerstonesofmaine.com%2Fblog%2Fyoung-adults-transitioning-to-independence](mailto:?subject=Behavioral%20Health%20Strategies%20for%20Success&body=https%3A%2F%2Fcornerstonesofmaine.com%2Fblog%2Fyoung-adults-transitioning-to-independence) Adulthood is realizing that life doesn’t come with an instruction manual. One minute, you’re in the bubble of childhood and then, seemingly out of nowhere, you’re a young adult who is expected to navigate work, relationships, and your own well-being. The [transition into independence](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-residential-transitional-living) is full of challenges that can lead to stress spirals and leave you feeling overwhelmed and hopeless. The good news? You don’t have to figure it all out alone. With the right strategies, you can build the skills, confidence, and resilience to live the life you want.    ## Getting Stuff Done Without Losing Your Mind   [Executive functioning](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4084861/) is akin to an air traffic control system for your brain. But instead of managing the ins and outs of planes, it’s in charge of managing information, planning ahead, and making decisions. Struggling with executive functioning can make life feel like it’s set to expert mode. Things like paying bills, following a work schedule, or even just remembering to eat lunch can feel impossible.    Since no one is born with executive functioning, it has to be learned. Here are a few tips:    Utilize External Supports  - Set digital reminders for important tasks or keep a written checklist to visually map out what needs to be done on a daily basis. Stability Comes From Structure  - Create a step-by-step morning routine to get you ready for the day and out the door. How Do You Eat an Elephant? One Bite at a Time - Breaking big tasks into smaller pieces can make overwhelming jobs feel more manageable. Instead of spending an hour cleaning your apartment, set a timer for 20 minutes of cleaning, followed by a 5 minute break. Accountability Matters - Having an accountability buddy—whether a friend, coach, or [therapist](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-team)—who checks in with you can be motivating. Give Credit When Credit is Due - Don’t forget to reward yourself when you complete a difficult task. Treat yourself to a coffee or a movie night. This will help to reinforce positive habits.   ## Managing Stress, Anxiety, & Mood Swings   Being independent means dealing with life’s ups and downs without always having someone to step in. Learning how to [manage stress and emotionally self-regulate](https://psychiatry.ucsf.edu/sites/psych.ucsf.edu/files/EMOTION%20REGULATION%20SKILLS%20MANUAL.pdf) is key. Developing coping strategies can mean the difference between breaking down and breaking through.    Mindful breathing exercises or progressive muscle relaxation can help calm the nervous system during stressful moments. Maybe certain activities like listening to music, moving your body, or journaling help you to relax. Keep those tools in your back pocket for when things are tough.    Having a go-to list of activities that help you reset, like calling a friend, going for a walk, or engaging in creative expression, can provide relief when things feel overwhelming. Additionally, creating a "terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day plan" with steps to take when emotions become too intense can offer structure and reassurance.   ## Moving Forward Even When You Don’t Feel Like It   Motivation isn’t about waiting until you “feel” like doing something. It’s about building habits that keep you moving forward; especially when you don’t want to. Building healthy habits starts with easy wins. If getting out of bed and to work on time feels like climbing Mt. Everest, start with something small. Put your feet on the floor and brush your teeth. That’s a win. Next, get dressed. Another win. The momentum from one small success to another can make it easier to tackle bigger responsibilities.    Life doesn’t have to be miserable. Pairing unpleasant things with more enjoyable tasks—like listening to a favorite podcast while folding laundry—can make them feel less daunting. And you can turn goal-setting into a game by tracking progress and celebrating accomplishments.    ## Creating Stability in an Unstable World   A lot of people hate the word discipline. But routines aren’t about rigid schedules, they’re about freedom. Routines reduce [decision fatigue](https://www.ama-assn.org/delivering-care/public-health/what-doctors-wish-patients-knew-about-decision-fatigue#) so your brain isn’t constantly overwhelmed. Starting and ending the day with consistent habits—like stretching in the morning or unplugging from screens before bed—can create a sense of predictability.    Scheduling self-care is just as important as any other responsibility. Whether it’s exercise, therapy, or downtime, treating self-care as a non-negotiable part of your routine can improve your overall well-being.   ## Social Skills & Connection: Finding Your People   [Humans are social creatures by design.](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2527715/) When we find other people that we connect with, our mental and emotional health improves. Building healthy relationships and support systems can make the transition to adulthood smoother. If social anxiety is a barrier, engaging in low-pressure interactions—like making small talk with a barista—can build comfort in social situations.   If in-person interactions feel overwhelming, joining online communities or interest-based meetups can provide a more approachable way to connect with others. Pay attention to how people make you feel and don’t be afraid to set boundaries with those who drain your energy or make you feel uncomfortable. This will help protect your mental health.    Make use of support groups whenever necessary. Reaching out for support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Seeking help from [therapy, support groups, or trusted mentors](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-residential-transitional-living-programs) can provide guidance and reassurance during challenging times.   ## You’re Capable (Even If It Doesn’t Feel Like It Yet)   Transitioning to independent [young adulthood](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/young-adult-treatment-resources) isn’t about doing everything perfectly—it’s about learning, growing, and giving yourself grace along the way. If you need extra support, you’re not failing—you’re being proactive. You’re not alone in this. You’re capable, even on the hard days.    If you’d like to speak with someone more in-depth about strategies for young adults facing mental health challenges, [give us a call today](https://cornerstonesofmaine.com/contact-young-adult-treatment). 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