
Treating Young Adults with OCD
Finding Freedom & Independence
Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) can turn even simple daily tasks into exhausting ordeals that slow down the journey to independence. At Cornerstones of Maine, young adults with OCD find treatment that tackles both the day-to-day symptoms and the bigger picture skills needed to build a life worth living.
Many of our clients arrive after years of fighting intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviors. Some have elaborate rituals that eat up hours of their day and keep them from doing things they love. Others have avoided college, relationships, or career opportunities because of overwhelming anxiety. Many have simply hidden their struggles, carrying the weight of OCD in secret. It’s just when they're facing adult responsibilities with less structure than ever before, that their symptoms often kick into overdrive.
But there's hope on the other side of OCD. We've watched countless young adults reclaim their lives using a blend of proven OCD techniques and our whole-person approach to treatment.
Understanding OCD in Young Adults
OCD affects roughly 2.5% of people, but its impact hits especially hard during the early adult years. Just when young adults are handling major life transitions such as moving out, living independently, entering college or the work force, and forming adult relationships, OCD can start to show up in new, more complicated ways.
Symptoms of OCD in young adults include:
Intrusive Thoughts
OCD often brings unwanted thoughts that pop up suddenly and won't go away: thoughts about germs on doorknobs, hurting someone you love, or whether you offended someone yesterday. They often focus intently on specific themes, such as contamination fears, worries about hurting people, needing things "just so," or distressing thoughts about sex, religion, or morality that contradict your values.
Repetitive Behaviors & Rituals
To cope with the anxiety these thoughts create, many young adults adopt specific rituals: washing hands until they're raw, checking the stove twenty times before leaving home, counting one’s steps, arranging belongings in perfect symmetry, constantly checking in with others, etc.
Avoidance
When rituals become too exhausting, people with OCD may try to avoid triggers altogether. Skipping classes because the chairs feel contaminated. Refusing to drive for fear of hitting someone. Declining social invitations to avoid triggering thoughts. This shrinking world means fewer friends, missed opportunities, and a loneliness that can make symptoms even worse.
Decision Paralysis
The need for certainty makes every decision feel impossible. What to wear, which assignment to start first, whether to text someone back—all can trigger hours of mental spinning and overwhelming anxiety.
Most young adults with OCD are bright, capable people who want independence but feel stuck in neverending obsession and ritual. They often know their fears aren't rational, but feel unable to stop the cycle. These struggles typically delay progress in school, careers, relationships, and basic self-care, falling years behind their peers despite their potential.
Our Approach to OCD Treatment for Young Adults
Treating OCD effectively at Cornerstones of Maine involves both specialized therapies and more general life skill coaching—from finances to building relationships, to finding purpose.
OCD Therapy for Young Adults
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is a powerful tool for OCD treatment. This evidence-based approach helps clients gradually confront anxiety-provoking situations while refraining from compulsive responses. Under the guidance of our experienced clinicians, clients develop a hierarchy of exposures specific to themselves, and work through them at their own pace.
At Cornerstones, ERP happens in real-life settings. Rather than conducting exposures solely in therapy sessions, our residential setting allows for supportive practice in actual living situations, with substantial support. A young adult with contamination-related OCD might practice touching "contaminated" surfaces and then preparing food in our community kitchen. Someone with checking compulsions might practice leaving the residence without performing their usual safety rituals. This real-world practice, combined with therapeutic guidance, creates learning experiences that directly foster independent living skills.
Cognitive Work for OCD
While behavioral interventions are helpful in OCD treatment, we also address the cognitive aspects through DBT, CBT, and more, helping clients to recognize their thoughts as products of OCD rather than meaningful messages that require response. This cognitive work complements behavioral interventions, creating an effective approach to symptom management.
Medication Management
We take a thoughtful approach to medication at Cornerstones, prescribing only after thorough assessment, and watching closely for both benefits and side effects while using them as one part of a more comprehensive treatment plan. Young adults learn the ins and outs of their medications—how they work, when to take them, and how to advocate for adjustments—so they can eventually manage their health independently.
Family Work for OCD Recovery
Family patterns often get tangled up with OCD, with parents and siblings enabling rituals out of misguided love or concern. Our family program helps relatives understand OCD from the inside out—and support recovery.
Through family sessions, educational workshops, and telephone support, we teach families strateegies to support an emerging adult. This work creates a home environment that can reinforce progress both during and after treatment.
Neurodivergence-Affirming OCD Treatment
In Rubedo, we've seen how OCD can look and feel different in neurodivergent young adults. We've adapted standard ERP therapy to work better with sensory preferences, special interests, and different communication styles. Our team knows how to tell the difference between authentic neurodivergent traits (like stimming or needing predictability) and actual OCD behaviors that need addressing.
Sensory-Informed Interventions
We've noticed that for many neurodivergent young adults, sensory overload can trigger or worsen OCD symptoms. The Rubedo house has thoughtful sensory modifications, and our occupational therapists help each client map their personal sensory landscape to develop practical coping strategies.
Visual & Concrete Supports
Standard OCD treatment can get pretty conceptual, which doesn't always click with more concrete thinkers. We use lots of visual aids, tangible examples, and clear structures in Rubedo. From visual exposure hierarchies to concrete decision-making tools, we adapt how we teach concepts to match different cognitive styles.
g interventions to support emotional regulation.
Social Support
Having both OCD and neurodivergence can make social situations extra challenging. Our Rubedo community creates a space where young adults don't have to hide either part of themselves. They can talk openly about their OCD struggles while also being authentically neurodivergent without pressure to mask. Our social skills work addresses the specific friendship bumps and workplace situations that happen at this intersection.
Skills for Long-Term OCD Management
Our treatment goals extend beyond symptom reduction to developing the skills needed for ongoing OCD management after program completion. Young adults in our program learn:
Early Warning Detection
Recognizing subtle signs of OCD reactivation or escalation is essential for preventing full relapse and retaining independence.
ERP Skills
We start with lots of therapist support during exposure exercises, but over time, we teach young adults to create and carry out their own ERP work. Many clients leave our program knowing exactly how to design their own exposure practice when OCD tries to make a comeback.
Healthy Uncertainty Tolerance
In our program, young adults practice sitting with uncertainty through both specific OCD exercises and everyday life situations. This helps them get more comfortable with the "maybes" that are part of adult life.
Balanced Lives Beyond OCD
What we're most proud of is watching young adults create lives bigger than their OCD. Through exploring careers, educational options, new relationships, and meaningful activities, they build fulfilling lives where OCD becomes a smaller and smaller part of their story – even if it does pop up occasionally.

Daily Life in Treatment
Each day blends specialized OCD treatment with broader life skills. Clients follow a regular schedule that includes:
- Starting the day with mindfulness practice to notice obsessive thoughts without automatically responding to them. With staff nearby for support, they practice morning routines without giving in to rituals, even when anxiety spikes.
- One-on-one therapy to develop personally relevant exposure hierarchies, process how exposures went, and work through the thinking patterns that fuel OCD. Our therapists bring specialized OCD training to both guide evidence-based treatment and provide emotional support.
- Group therapy offers opportunities to learn from peers who truly understand the OCD experience. Groups focus on specific skills like identifying cognitive distortions, developing response prevention strategies, and building lives beyond OCD.
- Daily living activities become therapeutic opportunities as clients practice preparing food, maintaining living spaces, managing time, and engaging in social interactions without yielding to OCD demands. These real-world experiences, supported by our staff, are building blocks for an independent life.
- Getting out into the world helps young adults reconnect with interests and people that OCD might have cut them off from. Whether hiking at a local park or trying an art class, these outings remind them what life can be like when they're not stuck in OCD cycles.
- Before bed, we take time to talk about wins and challenges from the day, map out tomorrow's plan, and work on healthy sleep habits – which can be tough for many people with OCD.
Throughout the day, our team finds that sweet spot between pushing and supporting. We'll encourage clients to stretch beyond what their OCD says is possible, but we won't throw them into the deep end without a lifeline.
A Path to Freedom and Independence
Getting better isn't just about having fewer symptoms. It's about reclaiming your right to live by your own values instead of OCD's rules. For our young adults, this shows up as being able to:

Follow their educational and career dreams

Build real connections with others

Handle everyday responsibilities

Make choices based on what matters to them, not what their OCD demands
Step Into Freedom
If OCD has hijacked your life or your loved one's life, we might be able to help. Our program has guided hundreds of young adults from being controlled by their OCD to taking back control of their lives. Give us a call today to talk about our Portland-based OCD treatment and how it fits with our other young adult programs.